Our life is not just twine of dreams, but is the concatenation of experiences. These experiences might be materialistic, but the inner voice besides these experiences is where our personality is encapsulated within. This voice is insulated from the outer world and is the prism of our personality. The life style which doesn’t masquerade our true personality is the hallmark for the perpetual delight.Well, we might be really pondering what, is this personality ….where does it originate from….I shall put it this way
“He who confirms, that he is out of spectacle of others, let his feelings detonate from the deep of minds darkness, his behavior to this inner vibrations “ is what I call one’s personality. It is all about being oneself…Our discernment is such that, when we sense that we are observed by others, without our conscious …our mind puts a mask on our personality , thus superseding it, thus there is no synchronization between our behavior that is explicit and personality that is implicit. Our personal and social life should echo each other. More our mind divulge and becomes nude, more we become purer.
The consistence should persist in the alignment of our speech, behavior and vision.
It might so happen , that we might achieve what we want by misguiding or cheating others by our impressive behavior, which at that moment might give a sense of achievement , but this would have resulted as a loss of satisfaction to our inner mind.
So it is better to lose by projecting as we are that winning by not being ourselves.
Our masked actions is the breeding ground for unhappiness. Our friends or our relatives might accompany us for an hour or two , but it is our inner cognizant that is going to prevail with us for 24 hours in a day , 7days a week and our life time.
“Being oneself is what is the truth and beauty”
Our speech is what that acts as an intransigent agent to our personality. Just as the medico diagnoses the ailments by looking in to our mouth (which is superficial), one can measure the in depth of personality by the way one speaks.
The speech has two facets, one is the external and the other internal . “The inner one being the mind and the external being the mode” The mode in which we speak might not reflect our inner mind.
Sometimes there might be a mesh if crooked thoughts on the background of outrageous sweet words. Some times behind the harsh words , there might be subtle and compassionate thoughts overwhelming in our minds.
( Which one do u fall under???)
Now I can broadly segregate different kinds of persons depending upon the combination of the above mentioned elements (thoughts and speech)
The cruelest among all is the person whose mind is crammed with depraved thoughts , whose words are ruthless as thorns and one who is intended to hurt others .
A better person is one, though speaks harshly but is well intentioned. Though his speech is crooked, you will still feel the gracious warmth of his personality. He might showcase himself as harmful serpent, but not the venomous serpent that will kill you.]
A more idealistic person is one in which the purity lies in both speech and his thinking. Always willing to help others , longing to his best for the mankind . His psyche is always garnished with balanced flavors of culture and good behavior. He doesn’t have an iota of intension to cheat others nor to speak in that way..
A fifth kind of utopic person is one who is not bounded to the framework of the world .
He is always engrossed with self contentment , always speaking words flowing from the cup of his heart . He does not cast an extreme tough or pious behavior. Does not have the tone to hamper the tempo of someone. The only words that flow on his mouth is the name of god. He sees all forms of life as a form of supreme being. He is a pot of enlightenment. His speech sparks the radiance of knowledge and depletes the darkness.
He only speaks the language of supreme culture and experiences.
He is ultimate.
So it is up to us to choose the we want to live…….
